• “How to keep the romance alive in a relationship” by Susan Myers

    by  • June 10, 2013 • Relationships

    Any relationship takes work and it’s easy to take each other for granted when you’ve been together a long time. Here are some tips for keeping the spark alive in your love life.


    Make time for each other

    Even when you’re super-busy, you should still make time for each other. Having date nights and doing special things together can help to keep the relationship alive. Put aside some time every week to spend together, just the two of you, preferably out and about where you won’t be distracted by laptops or phones ringing. It’s important to take time out of everyday life to enjoy each other’s company.

    Communicate often

    If you live with your partner, it’s easy to feel as though you see them all the time – but how often do you make time to really talk to each other? By making time to talk to each other regularly, you can help to strengthen your bond. Ask about your partner’s day as soon as they get home and put aside time to share how things are going. That way, nothing gets missed and you can feel closer than ever.

    Stay calm when discussing problems

    Arguments are a part of any long-term relationship and it can be easy for things to get out of control. When heated issues come up, try and stay calm. There are always two sides to every argument (even if you’re convinced that you’re right!) If you can listen to each other and talk things through properly, you’ll be much happier in the long run.


    Be spontaneous

    Any relationship can run the risk of getting stuck in a rut if there’s nothing new going on, so try and think big. Surprise your partner with a date night or even a trip away. It’ll not only show that you care but it’ll keep things interesting. When people get accustomed to a routine with their partner they can lose sight of the spark which brought them together. Keep it alive by doing something new together every so often.

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    We can use positive psychology to improve how we live our lives. So I love to share my understanding of it with others. To help them grow and flourish as I have. The posts on this blog set out to do just that. You need a lot of skill to make a relationship a happy one. So I write about relationship skills. Skills you can learn how to use in your own relationship. To keep it in good shape. To solve problems that may arise in it. And to improve the quality of your relationship. To make both of you happy.